You normally have to be bashed about a bit by life to see the point of daffodils, sunsets and uneventful nice days.
Alain De Botton – Philosopher
It’s been an eventful few weeks – all the changes at work are becoming very real now, and all the legal issues around my friend’s death are nearly done. I’m recovering well mentally and physically, though there’s a while to go yet – I know I’ll get to where I want to be – and can regain my inner and outer calm soon 🙂
I’ve always loved Daffodils. I lived in flats for many years and often had vases of daffs around the house.
Once I got a garden (with a house) they were the first things I planted – there are many species around by garden. My tête a têtes are always the first to flower (in late January this year!) and when they do – I know Spring is on its way. There’s a great show from my crocuses and irises so maybe they’ll be in the vase next week.
I’ve also got some wall flowers still flowering from last summer (in a very sheltered part of my garden) – so I wanted to showcase them too.
I picked dark green rosemary and silver grey curry plant because, I liked the contrast of colours and textures. I thought they all went well with the blooms and Vase.
Herbs and spices are a huge part of our cooking. We’ve got 10 different kinds of mint in pots so it doesn’t spread around the garden. My chap has been taking care of me by cooking great food – it’s one of the ways he shows his love for me (and others). I wrote about him and all the other ‘chefs’ in my life in December.
- In a Vase on Monday – Love and rosemary for remembrance – 31 December 2015
The helichrysum had very small yellow flowers, and it was only it seems appropriate, that it is used in ‘Everlasting’ and ‘Immortal’ Essential Oils.
The Vase is actually a recycled glass tealight holder which I bought at The Eden Project in 2014. It’s made an appearance before:
My Chap and I have been making plans – we’ve booked a holiday to Cornwall in May. I’m sure we’ll be visiting The Eden Project again, Heligan, Caerhays and some of the other great gardens of Cornwall – we didn’t get to Lanhydrock last year but will go there definitely. I think we’ll be spending alot of time by the sea too.
I’m hoping I can get some more garden ornaments on our trip. I’ve got quite a few rusty iron flowers and other decorations around the garden. I really must write about them in a blog – as they’re carefully chosen, with memories and love associated with each one.
Cathy at Rambling in the Garden has a wonderful vase this week in a Japanese style and has written about weddings and promises. Do have a look at everyone’s vases from around the world and join in if you can. These vases and all the blog writers lift my mood and inspire my planting 🙂 Thank you so much everyone – I’m trying to comment more in 2016.
Today I am thinking of promises made both long ago, and more recently but most of all – promises for the future. I’ve only ever tried to do my best – I hope I have.
It seems appropriate to dream on the ‘extra’ day we have this year. My ideas about what to do this year are coming together – which is helping me feel more content, but it’s scary at the same time. I just know I need to be brave – and take the first step. I know I need to believe in myself and ‘seize the day’.
As ever, My Chap is always holding my hand (sometimes metaphorically) through all of life’s adventures on the ‘nice, uneventful days’ as well as the most challenging days. I would have been in a real pickle if he hadn’t been here in 2015.
I am dreaming of the sunsets by the sea in Cornwall. I hope things will be clearer by then… and I’ll be feeling less ‘bashed about by life’.
Have a lovely week – what have you done with your extra day?