In a Vase on Monday: be present with yoga

“Calming the mind is yoga. Not just standing on the head.” Swami Satchidananda

This week, despite the heat in Manchester, I’ve done quite a bit of gardening in the evenings, when most of our North facing garden is in the shade.  I notice my mood is better if I’ve spent time outdoors, especially pottering around and watering the plants.  I’ve rationalised my plants into bigger pots, pushed together so that I can water everything I need to and bigger pots retain the moisture.  It’s also the first summer I’ve watered shrubs in the garden. It takes me about half an hour to water the pots (with a watering can and water from the water butts).  We have had so little rain here – and the temperatures have been in the high 20s for a couple of months.  Also, I’ve put succulents, sedums and drought tolerant plants in my hanging baskets.  Gardening helps me be mindful – as does yoga.


7 August 2018 – posy of sweetpeas, lavender and dianthus – with The Book of You and a Be present yoga print

How yoga helps my mind, body and spirit

I’ve been practising yoga, on and off, for about 12 years, starting completely by accident.  A friend of mine had a pal who was learning to be an Iyengar yoga teacher so needed people to practise with.  It was right next to work, straight after work so it seemed a good thing to do. It changed my life.

When I was younger I had poor spacial awareness and was always tripping over, which lead to some hilarious incidents including my Steve (my former partner) pulling me out of a peat bog as I’d sunk up to my knees and was slowly falling face forward into the bog.  Another time I went flying, just as a busload of tourists came round the corner in very rural Ireland.  I was always collecting bruises from bumping into things.

It’s a long time ago, but the first things I noticed doing yoga was that it helped me stretch (especially my hamstrings), helped calm my brain as I was concentrating on breathing and the position of my limbs.  I learnt to do corpse pose (Shavasana) not ‘banana’ pose as my first Yoga teacher Jacky named it.  Yoga isn’t a quick fix – it took me about 6 weeks to see the real benefit. I carried on with Jacky’s classes and then John Aplin for years until my work pattern changed.

Now I go to Sadhana’s classes in Eccles once or twice a week (

A couple of years ago, My Chap injured his Achilles and couldn’t run for three months (gosh he was grumpy). I’d been saying to him that yoga would help stretch his hamstrings and he’d get fewer injuries overall.   I ‘forced’ him to go to yoga – it changed his life too. No more running injuries; he runs faster and further.  It opened his stride and helped him regulate his breathing when he’s running. It’s helped his posture too as he has a physical job.  Now he goes twice a week and is a much more organised about daily practise than me.

Ways yoga helps me 

  • It helps me be ‘in the moment’ – as I’m thinking about what each part of my body is doing – and my breathing – so it calms my busy brain.
  • It keeps me active – It’s easy to fit in even five minutes a day – I tend to follow youtube videos or do sun salutations.
  • It helps my heart and circulation -research backs this up  (Effects of yoga in patients with paroxysmal atrial fibrillation – a randomized controlled study – 2016).
  • It helps me stay supple and toned – my osteoarthritis would be worse if I hadn’t done so much yoga and continuing to do yoga regularly.
  • It helps me manage the pain from arthritis, by taking notice of my breath (this I do when I’m not in a class) and helps my wellbeing generally.
  • It’s something My Chap and I can do together.

The very hot weather helps my yoga practise as I can stretch further 🙂 I need plenty of water though.  There’s plenty of research about the benefits of yoga for health and wellbeing; I’ll write about that another time.  I know I’ll be doing yoga for the rest of my life.  More posts about Yoga

“Quiet your mind.  Free your body.”
“Yoga is a light, which once lit, will never dim. The better your practice, the brighter the flame.”

B.K.S lyengar


In my vase today

I picked the first sweetpeas (a Spencer mix) which are growing outside my back door. The sweetpeas have been struggling in the hot weather, despite regular watering, and in the shade for half the day.  There are also some pink and red dwarf dianthus and some lavender from the front garden.   The stone ware vase is about 8 cm high  – I bought it many years ago in a local pottery on the West Coast of Scotland.

Do have a look at Rambling in the Garden, where Cathy hosts the meme.  This week she’s on a Scottish Isle and has some beautiful Dahlias.  I like the idea that the flowers are left for people to pick up and enjoy in their own homes. My dahlia’s are coming along nicely so maybe they’ll be in the vase next week.

I have about 15 lavender bushes of various varieties growing in my very sunny front garden, I love the scent of lavender. Lavender featured heavily in our wedding last September.

I’ve written about Sweetpeas, lavender and dianthus on the blog many times – they’re probably my favourite flowers for long flowering time and are easy to grow.


7 August 2018 – our Wedding afternoon tea Lemon Dizzle cake with lavender

The Book of You – Daily Micro-Actions for a Happier Healthier You*

This book has a daily prompt across four sections – Mind, Love, Move, Food.  I’m not following on strict date order as I find it a bit of a constraint, so I flick the book open and pick an action from the three or four on the pages.  I find microactions much easier to do and stick with than a big, long list of changes.  Also, I make a note when the action is something I do already.

I tend to put my daily actions on Instagram (@becinmonton)

  • Celebrate colour – 31 July 2018 – 211 day of 2018 (see below) I love bright colours esp my clothes. I wear alot of purple/pink clothes. I picked flowers from the garden for the lounge, photographed them and put some summery pictures up 🙂 #microaction #beinthemoment
  • Concentrate on lunch – 92 – I ate an egg salad, ate it slowly,  being mindful. I didn’t multi-task and didn’t photograph it either!

I received this book in my monthly BuddyBox* from the Blurt Foundation (  Blurt support people with Depression and Anxiety. I’ve written about Blurt a few times on the blog and their picture prompts on Instagram

the book of youIn case you were wondering the yoga pose on the print is Adho Mukha Svanasana.

Have you tried yoga? or daily prompts? Let me know in the comments

Carpe Diem

Love Bec xx xx xx

*I haven’t been asked to write a review of the book or BuddyBoxes – I paid full price for the box

20 thoughts on “In a Vase on Monday: be present with yoga

  1. jennyinneverland

    I loved your part about Yoga! I’m a HUGE Yoga fan, I do it almost daily and am going on my first Yoga retreat in November! It’s helped me massively and I started it due to severe anxiety and even now, rolling my mat out gives me a huge sense of calm that I know for the next half an hour, I’m safe and I’m supported.


    1. Bec - views from my garden bench Post author

      I’m so pleased to hear this Jenny – It has helped me so much over the years, I’d been in a much worse state without it. I think understanding different methods of breathing help me the most – especially in stressful situations. Where’s your retreat? I’ve never been to a retreat for yoga. Love Bec xx

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      1. jennyinneverland

        Oh definitely! The main thing I’ve learnt is to just BREATH. Stop holding it or forcing it. I’m just so much more aware of my breath now! And it’s in Norfolk 🙂 xxx


  2. Sam

    I’m totally with you on the yoga. I’ve been practising for about 6 years and I know I’ll keep it up for the rest of my life because the benefits are huge. My husband is also a yoga convert – it helps his rowing. Beautiful flowers 🙂


  3. Noelle

    In the garden you can listen to the breeze, the sounds of nature, and your own breathing…but then there is a little flutter of wings, the tweet of birds…and all is well….Lovely to read your post.


  4. Michelle loves to eat

    I’m so jealous you get to do gardening. Nothing grows in my flat (except for some cacti).
    Now regarding the yoga, I’ve always wanted to try it but can’t find studios that don’t charge crazy prices in the city centre, any recommendations for YouTube videos or maybe something else that won’t be as expensive?


    1. Bec - views from my garden bench Post author

      I lived in flats for many years so I feel for you – had my tiny house and garden nearly 9 years now. Yoga is really expensive in the City centre – I’d suggest esther ekhart or yoga with adriene. If you work down Oxford Road Manchesgter Uni do wellbeing courses (inc for the public) e,g. yoga/pilates. it’s on the sport section of their website. Hope you can find a way to fit yoga into your life. Love Bec


  5. Beth Berger

    I absolutely adore yoga! I find that it’s one of the few activities where I can really shut my brain off (because I’m so focused on the movements and my breath). I think everyone should give it a try at least once!! 🙂



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