I’m planning on writing more this year, getting a shorter URL and I’ve got plenty of ideas for blog topics. More photos of flowers too. This weekend I’m off to a blogging conference run by the team at BlogOn (https//BlogOnuk.com) – it’s only down the road at Hotel Football, in Old Trafford, in Manchester – about three miles from my house. I’d seen bloggers taking about how well run, and useful, the conferences are, so I signed up. I wanted to learn some new skills, update my knowledge, especially about Pinterest, and maybe talk about collaborations. I’m very much looking forward to meeting some other bloggers face to face, that I know via Twitter and other social media. It’s always good to spend time with people who do a similar role to you, and have some fun.
If you’re coming to the conference come and say hello 🙂 I’m hoping I’m not a fish out of water.
We’ve been asked to write a bit about ourselves and link up… So here goes…
- Share a recent photo of yourself
I’m Bec, I live in Monton in Eccles, which is in Salford in Lancashire. Monton is on the West of Greater Manchester, about six miles from the city centre; it’s leafy round here, with Worsley Woods, a couple of golf courses and the Bridgewater Canal is at the end of our street – we’ve got a good cafes, bars and restaurants around here and a growing number of street art bees.
I blog about flowers, gardening, wellbeing and our adventures out and about, usually in the Great Outdoors . I’m a Southerner originally, born in Berkshire. I’ve lived here for 20 years, visiting since 1989, so I’ve seen lots of changes around Manchester.
I’m definitely in my spiritual home among the friendly Northerners. Also, I know the correct words to use to order a bread role in any part of Greater Manchester. In Eccles its a barm 😉 I eat my chips with gravy, but never mushy peas (Devil’s work).
This is the first picture of me I’ve ever put on the blog. I feel like I should tell you I’m wearing a White Stuff dress, with Razzle Dazzle Irregular Choice shoes – Outfit of the Day and all that 😉 The photo was taken just before I headed out to my Hen Do afternoon tea last September.
- What’s your favourite pizza topping?
Olives, anchovies, prosciutto, tomato, mozzarella on a super thin crust.
- You can have dinner with any three guests dead or alive- who do you choose and why?
I could easily pick three gardeners, three historians, three chefs, three novelists, three adventures, three musicians, three scientists, the list could go on. But, I’ll confine myself to a group who’d have so much to discuss and share – Nigel Slater, Mary Beard and Charles Darwin.
- Up to now what would you consider being your biggest life achievement?
I’ve raised alot of money for charities to research Motor Neurone Disease (because My Chap’s brother died aged 49 in 2017 from MND) and cancer (because lung cancer took my Dad 18 years ago when he was 70). In my day job, I’ve helped academics win millions in funding for research with patients in the NHS – just about any topic or disease you can think of. I’m proud I help people make a difference – and make the world a better place.
- If you woke up tomorrow as a character from any Disney film or book who would you be and why?
I watched most of the classic Disney Films as a kid in the 1970s, Sleeping Beauty, 101 Dalmatians, Snow White, Lady and the Tramp, etc. My favourite is Jungle Book – I love the songs. I’ve never seen Bambi though.
However, since Disney bought the Star Wars franchise, I’m taking Leia at any age, as my character…
I was 11 in 1977 when Star Wars came out and I’d never seen a woman as the lead, a hero, in charge – it affected me deeply. The film was massive in the playground; I think I saw it three or four times that year. I was, and still am, a massive Star Wars and sci-fi geek. Wish I’d kept the light sabre though. In the recent films Leia, as a General, is only a decade or so older than me, so I hope I have her compassion, determination and wit.
I have a special love for Yoda; he has appeared so many times in the blog he has his own Tag.
- What is the first thing you do when you wake up in the morning?
Stretch! Wiggle my toes and fingers. I have osteoarthritis in my fingers, toes and in my back, so I often wake up very stiff.
- If you won the lottery what would be the very first thing you would buy and why?
A round the world airline ticket for My Chap and I, to visit friends and family, watch some tennis, go to some gigs and walk on beaches. Then we’d come back to Manchester, pay off and do up our house and garden. We’d stay here, as we love Manchester, but we’d also love a house by the sea.
- What is your favourite quote from a movie?
‘Difficult to see. Always in motion is the future’. Yoda
- If you were a superhero what would your super power be?
Time travel – not only because I love history – but it would mean I could visit people in a instant.
- What is the best piece of advice you have ever been given?
When I was a teenager, My Dad used to talk about ‘Things a Girl Should Know’, most were practical like how to open champagne, how to shake hands firmly, tie bow ties properly, change a tyre etc. He taught me to cook too, but that’s a whole other story.
He told me to be true to myself, be kind, help people, when you can and say No to things you really don’t want to do.
And to trust your gut.
- Which emoji do you use the most?
I’m absolutely bobbins at doing emojis, so I can only use three (typing the characters too) – 🙂 😉 😦
- If you could go back in time and tell yourself anything what would it be?
My Granny Dolly who was a country woman, a working class suffragette, dog breader, judge at Cruft and a terrible cook, said to use moisturiser every day. Her skin was amazing, even in her 80s, and I’m afraid I didnt take this advice. I realised the error when I turned 40 and have mostly remembered the moisturiser since then.
- What do you currently have set as the wallpaper on your phone?
This is the bay at Flinders, on the Mornington Peninsula, just south of Melbourne. My Australian family live here some of the time. Flinders is a village, with a General Store, one pub and a few coffee shops – it’s a peaceful, sleepy and relaxed place. I love it there.
- If you could do anything in the world as a legitimate job what would you do?
Be a guide around one of the great gardens, photographing people, places and plants – sharing and tweeting too.
- Where is your favourite place in the world?
I don’t have one favourite place – I guess mine is more about what places make me feel – a state of mind. Contentment, peace, relaxed but it would definitely have beautiful flowers.
And now to see if I can add the link button without a laptop. It broke on Monday so I’m using the tablet at the moment (TMI probably). Oops I chopped my head of on the link box.
Do have a look at the BlogOn X – linky for more blog and bloggers 🙂 I’ve found some new ones to follow.
Any thing I’ve missed? Let me know in the comments.
But, in the meantime, remember Life isn’t a dress rehearsal.
Love Bec xx
‘Wherever you go, no matter what the weather, always bring your own sunshine’ Anthony D’Angelo – American Educator
The weather has been a bit chilly and windy here in Salford, so for today’s vase I picked the brightest colours I could find in the garden – lots of different kinds of dwarf daffodils, including a solitary frilly one. Most of the Daffodils came from a mixed bag of bulbs from my local garden centre Bents. I added some bright yellow primrose, which opens as orange, and a frond of blue scilla. I matched them with an aqua glass vase, which I bought at the Eden Centre a few years ago – it’s made from reclaimed glass, has a metal hanger, handy for wedging stems against. The vase is really a tealight holder – it’s appeared before In a Vase on Monday, with daffodils but I didn’t realise that until I looked it up on the blog. There’s rain drops on the Primula and one of the Daffodils has been munched – oh well that’s Nature for you.
I probably sound like a broken record, but the weather has been very backwards and forwards in April in Salford. It’s been even more changeable than usual for April, – and not many April showers either. There was the brief hot, sunny 70degrees for a few days mid week, which ‘might’ have been our Summer/Spring. It was rather wasted as I was at work, but it did give me a chance to take some photos around Oxford Road. Doesn’t it look awesome and I love the living wall on the side of the Physics building. I wish there were more of these, and more Cherry trees around campus.
Manchester and Salford look stunning at the moment with the many ornamental blossoms – I counted over 50 trees on the way home in so many shades of pink and white, on my 6 mile commute (and two miles in motorway in deep concrete cuttings). I must take some photos of the local ones around Monton – there’s four mature cherry trees on our Green, which definitely isn’t big enough for a cricket match.
As usual I’m linking up with Cathy from Rambling in the Garden; she has a beautiful collection of many shades of white, with streaks of green when you look closely. Like many things, if you look closely you see more. A good reminder for life generally – and doing this helps me be mindful too. I’m expecting to have Tulips in my Vase on Bank Holiday Monday, there are many coming though.
Blurt Foundation #blurtselfcareathon April
This finished today -Monday 30 April 2018. It’s been a reflective day for me.
I’ve enjoyed the challenge of finding photos to represent the topics – sometimes it was very thought provoking, other times the photo and description were straightforward – some photos I had already and some I took especially for the prompt. I made a couple of collages too.
I’d definitely do another of these prompts again. Have you seen anything suitable? Would you have a go? Let me know in the comments.
Follow the Instagram hashtag – #blurtselfcareathon
Thank you to The Blurt Foundation for all they do to help people like me – I’d have been a mess if I hadn’t found them. I’ve written about them a few times on the blog.
- In A Vase on Monday – old rose, new year plans…CompassYear
- In a Vase on Monday – good enough when not ‘in the pink’
- In a Vase on Monday -(journaling) old favourites and new memories
Follow Blurt Foundation on Twitter @BlurtAlerts
More resources and help for depression and anxiety at: www.blurtitout.org
The Blurt Foundation’s CEO Jayne Hardy knows so much about self care, she wrote a book about it :-). It’s available from bookshops Self Care Project
I can see my neighbour’s stunning cherry blossom from my front door. Isn’t it gorgeous? It lifts my mood.
In the meantime enjoy National Gardening Week – hope you can get outside to enjoy some gardens, flowers and plants… or just a walk in the sunshine or doing something you love. It’s due to be a sunny Bank Holiday weekend so we’ll be making the most of it.
I’ll be taking notice of the small things too – #mindfulness. I’ve tapped into more of my inner sunshine despite being ridiculously busy.
We go to Australia in less than two weeks to see our awesome relatives so we will definitely see some genuine sunshine (inner sunshine too).
Love Bec xx xx xx
I’m happiest by the water whether it’s rivers, lakes, the sea. All my Australian family love the sea too.
This is Flinders, a village on the Bass Straight side of the Mornington Peninsula where they live some of the time. It’s peaceful and beautiful at Flinders. #rechargethebatteries.
We are so excited to see our Aussie family in Melbourne next month.
I’m a sociable and friendly person – I’m so fortunate to have so many friends and family who’ve supported me in tough times and good. And of course, My Chap – he makes me a better person.
My Chap, and I, do as much as we can to raise awareness and funds for the Motor Neurone Disease Association. Here he is after pushing Beth (who lost her mum to MND), round Brighton Marathon. Beth walked over the finish line and they were both interviewed on the big screen.
We’re all part of a group (700+) called @RunMND on Twitter and Facebook. We do all we can support and encourage each other, raising money and awareness about Motor Neurone Disease.
Come and find us and get involved…
I hope we see more of these around the campus and the city